Traveling to Bali Solo: Why Everyone Should Experience Solo Travel At Least Once
Traveling to Bali, Indonesia, wasn’t my first solo trip, but it was my first time traveling alone internationally. And let me tell you—it was one of the most powerful experiences of my life. In this blog, I’ll break down why everybody—especially women, mothers, business owners, and people who are constantly on the move—should experience solo travel at least once in their lifetime.
Why I Took This Trip
As a woman, a mother, and a business owner, I am always moving, always handling something, always making things happen. And while I love that part of me, it also means that I rarely get time alone. The few moments I do get—maybe three days max—are usually because I’m away for a business conference or educational event.
But solo travel? That’s different. That’s intentional. That’s choosing to step away from the noise, fully rely on yourself, and navigate new spaces, cultures, and environments with nothing but your own instincts and wisdom to guide you.
And let me be clear—solo travel is not for everyone. If you struggle with making decisions for yourself, if you don’t feel comfortable being alone with your thoughts, or if you need constant external validation, then traveling solo might feel uncomfortable.
But if you’re someone who:
✅ Wants to grow in independence and confidence
✅ Needs time to sit with your own thoughts, journal, reflect, and just be
✅ Feels alone even when surrounded by people
✅ Is processing a major life change, whether good or bad
✅ Is on a journey of self-discovery and healing
Then solo travel is for you.
I truly believe that solo travel is a way to test and assess where you thought you were versus where you actually are. It will reveal so much about you—things you didn’t even realize before.
The Benefits of Solo Travel (Based on Experience & Research)
“Transformation isn’t always pretty—sometimes it wraps around your neck and dares you to rise anyway.”
— Lynniah Grayson
1. You Gain Unshakable Confidence in Yourself
When you solo travel, you are the only one responsible for your safety, your choices, and your experiences. There’s no one else to lean on, which means you learn to trust yourself fully.
Research even backs this up—solo travelers report feeling a boost in confidence and decision-making skills after their trip because they had to rely on themselves in ways they never had before. (Forbes Travel)
2. You Experience a Different Kind of Freedom
There’s no negotiating plans. No waiting on someone else to get ready. No trying to balance multiple schedules or preferences.
You wake up and do what you want, how you want, and when you want. If you feel like getting up at 6 AM to watch the sunrise on the beach? Go for it. If you feel like taking a nap at 2 PM? No one’s there to stop you. It’s total freedom in a way that’s incredibly rare in everyday life.
3. You Get to Disconnect & Be Fully Present
**On this trip, I made a decision—**I wasn’t going to be glued to my phone. I kept social media to a minimum, only used WhatsApp for essential calls, and even on my birthday, I was super selective about who I talked to.
Why? Because I wanted to be fully present with myself.
In a world where we’re constantly distracted, solo travel forces you to focus on the here and now. Studies show that people who travel alone develop stronger mindfulness skills because they are more tuned into their surroundings. (Psychology Today)
4. You Meet & Connect With People in the Most Authentic Way
One of the best parts of traveling alone is how easy it is to connect with others.
When you’re solo, you’re more approachable. People naturally want to talk to you, invite you into experiences, and you end up forming connections you never saw coming.
I had some of the most genuine interactions with locals in Bali simply because I was alone. I wasn’t tied up in conversation with a friend or distracted by group plans—I was present, open, and willing to connect.
5. You Activate a Higher Level of Creativity & Self-Reflection
Solo travel stretches you.
Being in a new environment alone challenges your critical thinking, adaptability, and creativity. You find yourself solving problems in real-time, making quick decisions, and navigating an entirely new culture.
There’s also so much time to reflect—whether through journaling, taking long walks, or just sitting still and thinking. This kind of clarity is rare in daily life but life-changing when you allow yourself to experience it.
Why Traveling Solo Abroad is Different
I’ve traveled solo before, but traveling solo ABROAD? That hits different.
For me, Hawaii felt like a short getaway, almost like driving to another city. But flying across the world—24+ hours in the air with a layover in South Korea—that was something else entirely.
Solo travel abroad requires:
✔️ Courage—crossing seas, being in a foreign place, and trusting yourself completely.
✔️ Faith—knowing that no matter what, you’ll be okay.
✔️ Fearlessness—navigating a place where you might not speak the language, know the customs, or have a safety net nearby.
But that’s the beauty of it.
When you solo travel internationally, you prove to yourself that you are capable, strong, and resilient. You see a version of yourself that isn’t dependent on anyone or anything back home. And that alone is powerful.
Final Thoughts: Is Solo Travel for You?
Tirta Empul Temple
Even in Bali, God met me at the water.
If you’ve ever considered traveling alone but held back because of fear, I encourage you to take the leap. **Start small if you need to—**take a weekend trip somewhere nearby. Then work your way up.
But if you’re someone who:
✅ Wants more confidence and independence
✅ Needs time to reset and be present
✅ Wants to meet new people and experience life in a fresh way
✅ Is on a journey of healing, self-discovery, or growth
Then solo travel is for you.
This trip to Bali, Indonesia, changed me in ways I can’t even put into words. It reminded me that I am capable. I am strong. And I don’t need permission to live my life fully.
If you’ve traveled solo before, what was your experience like? And if you haven’t yet, where would you want to go? Let me know in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts!
📍 Until next time, happy traveling! 🌍✈️✨